12 Jun 2021

When Rejection Hit Me

As I try to go behind my goal it seems my goal is running away from me, when I give my hand in some task then realize I am not fit for that task.

When I try to penetrate my target then the arrow goes far away from the centre and it looks I will never hit the target.

I see a great distance between me and my goal, between the centre of the target and the arrow where it hit.

Nothing happens in my favour, not even looks like it will happen in my favour.

It creates a wave of great disappointment in me, back to back rejections and failures screams that now I should stop.

Trying

I should accept that I am not that capable, I cannot tolerate the laughing and comments of the world at me anymore.

I should compromise with rejections and failures and should surrender and retreat, and be satisfied what I have, and console myself by saying success is not in my Luck I think this would be the best idea.

Let the luck become responsible for my failure, the wall of luck is so big I can easily hide behind that wall; No one can see me there.

No one can call me a loser, But I found it won't work, Because I can hide from everyone but not from me, I cannot stop to see myself in the mirror.

This is not the solution, and then what is the solution?

Then I read about "Jack Ma", who applied three times in university but rejected, applied ten times in harward but not accepted.

Applied in the police job but failed, and when the Travel industry growing in world twenty four candidates applied, twenty three succeeded but he.

Failed

But today no one knows about those twenty three but the world knows about the one who failed, I knew about "Michael Jordan".

One of the best basketball players in the history of his field, who says, I can accept failure, everyone fails in something but I cannot accept not trying.

To learn to succeed you must learn to fail first, and this saying of him shows the level of his determination, persistence, struggle, madness and the philosophy of trying and "Not To Give Up that", I failed over and over and over again in my life and that’s why "I succeeded".

Then I realized that my failure my rejections are not even one percent, and I got scared, the great examples of persistence of great people clearly shows they loved the work they were doing because if they do not love the work were doing then they were going to quit.

I realized life is not about to achieve the goal but to try to achieve the goal, after failure not to quit but to continue and stand fast in difficulties.

Life is to live with purpose whether I achieve it or not, when fell down then stand back and walk again with sincere heart with little more effort than before.

Hope

Never takes its hands back then why I am taking my hands back.

I must never leave the hands of hope, because, if I try with belief then I would have the chance to succeed but if I don’t try?

If I try and fail then world will say me a loser but my conscience will be satisfy, I can see myself in the mirror with proud that I never GAVE UP.

When I will die I won’t have anything inside me because I lived my life with purpose, I was not directionless, I would have to take the rejections positively.

Because rejections and failures are crucial for growth, Being scared, going back and quitting is not the solution at all, But moving forward step by step, one by one, day by day is the solution.

Failure

I will learn from the failure, I will learn from other’s mistakes and failures, Rejection is not mean failure but to stop trying is the failure.

Being success and failure is in my hand because until I don’t accept that I am failed, I am not fail, If I don’t give up till my final breath and I don’t achieve what I want to achieve and I die then even I am not failed because I don’t GIVE UP.

In-fact I have succeeded, now I have got my energy back, now I am ready to march towards my goal with more energetically, with more belief.

I am ready to throw the arrow with more concentration, focus and with the belief how far it goes from the point.

No Issue

I will try again and again and again to penetrate the centre of the target till my final breath.

I won’t GIVE UP!


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